My darling Tristan has officially in school since 2nd of Jan at the age of 3. I have mixed feelings knowing he has to be schooled at this tender age. And i'm indeed very dismay that i cannot take him to his school on the 1st day.
Tristan cried & did not want to go to school which obviously something to be expected. I cannot understand why the parents are so upset as if like they are expecting him to react normal and jump in joy to go to school? If any of the children on this earth does that at the age of 3, please introduce me to that child.
When Tristan boy went to nursery at the age of 2, it took us a lot of time and patience to make him comfortable. Dad drove him & waited outside of the class until he was comfortable before leaving. NOT A SINGLE WORD of COMPLAINT from dad ! And now the parents are complaining that Tristan is crying? I really wonder who are the parents of Tristan.
If one decided to send a child at this young age to school, kindly be mentally prepared. If you yourself is so impatient with the child, then don't blame the child when the child cries after seeing strangers. As an adult, if one cannot control themselves, don't expect a child at the age of 3 to control themselves ! Please, they are just a reflection on how an adult acts.
I may not give birth to Tristan but am very anxious like any other mother. If i can, i will wake up extra early on that morning, get myself ready and wake him up .. walk him to school and cry together with him. Not throwing tantrum and be angry when the child refused to go to school.
It's going to be a long way for Tristan to get used to the environment with this kind of support he is getting. I can only pray to God to help Tristan and let him has the favor from teachers and be loved by them.
My boy has grown up ... and can't wait for him to grow up fast so that he can take care of himself & does not need to rely on them. Feel extremely bad for him .....
Be strong Tristan ... and enjoy schooling ok ... Teachers there are good and kor kor will visit you whenever kor kor can. Love you always ... my darling Tristan !
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